Chapter 583 Self
Chapter 583 Self
Gu Qinghuan did not set the conditions in great detail, so some aspects were left to the two of them to decide for themselves.
Jia Yimo said, "Let's go to the amusement park together on Saturday."
"Okay, when shall we meet?" Ouyang Wushuang directly brought up the point of conflict.
Jia Yimo said, "The amusement park opens at 8:30 in the morning, and we're going on a Saturday, so there will be a lot of people lining up. Why don't we meet at the subway exit at 7:30!"
Ouyang Wushuang immediately shook his head like a rattle: "No, no, 7:30 is too early. It takes at least half an hour to get there by subway from my house. If you add the time taken up for washing and so on, I have to get up earlier than usual to go to school! I can't do it at all!"
"But we are going to the amusement park. If we go too late, there will be fewer attractions to enjoy." Jia Yimo frowned.
"Just play less," Ouyang Wushuang said indifferently, "If I don't sleep well, I won't have the energy to play."
Jia Yimo frowned. She habitually wanted to blame Ouyang Wushuang, but then she remembered Gu Qinghuan's teachings and quickly recited "actual action" to herself. She changed her words and said, "If you don't have the energy, how about I order you a cup of coffee?"
"I'm sensitive to caffeine. If I drink it, I won't be able to play anymore." Ouyang Wushuang shrugged.
Jia Yimo was speechless for a moment, made a pause gesture, and turned to look at Gu Qinghuan: "Do I have to persuade her to go to the amusement park?"
"No need," Gu Qinghuan shook her head, "You just need to talk to her. You can use this opportunity to imagine Wushuang as the person you want to say bad things about. The key is to communicate according to your usual habits."
According to Gu Qinghuan's observation, when Jia Yimo mentioned ordering coffee just now, she must have been consciously fighting against her own habit, otherwise she would have said, "Can't you go to bed early?"
Jia Yimo put down his hand, thought for a moment, and said, "I understand. I'll continue."
She took a breath and said decisively, "Are you sensitive to caffeine? Then you had to drink latte last time!"
Ouyang Wushuang seemed to be thinking about something. It seemed that Jia Yimo had assigned her past friend to her.
She continued smoothly: "Latte has a relatively low coffee content, so it's okay to drink a little."
"Then I can just bring you a cup of latte, right?" Jia Yimo said.
Gu Qinghuan knocked on the table twice to stop them. Jia Yimo couldn't help but feel a little nervous: "What's wrong? Didn't I propose a solution?"
Without waiting for Gu Qinghuan to speak, Ouyang Wushuang started to criticize: "What kind of solution is this? You just found something you can use in my words to achieve your goal."
She said bluntly: "The point of our discussion just now was obviously that I didn't want to get up early to go to the amusement park, but you shifted the topic to my inability to drink coffee."
"This means that you assume that as long as the problem of 'I don't have energy' is solved, your need should be met, which is to get up early and go to the amusement park."
"These are obviously two different things!" Ouyang Wushuang argued, "You haven't even proposed a real solution!"
Hearing Ouyang Wushuang say this, Jia Yimo felt a little embarrassed. She said hesitantly, "But I really can't think of how to convince you to get up early and go to the amusement park..."
This time it was Gu Qinghuan who spoke up: "Actually, you don't have to convince her."
Jia Yimo looked at Gu Qinghuan blankly, only to hear her calmly say: "You just need to say 'then we won't go to the amusement park', or 'I'll find you next time if there are activities in the afternoon or evening', that's all."
"The difference between the two is whether you want to go to the amusement park or hang out with her."
Jia Yimo was obviously shocked: "Hey, but, but shouldn't friends be together..."
"No," Ouyang Wushuang said, "Even if you have the same interests and hobbies, you and your friends are different people. There is no need to force yourself to be consistent."
It’s like although she and Murong Tianjiao both like the two-dimensional world, she prefers online activities while Murong Tianjiao prefers to participate in offline activities.
As for specific preferences, the differences are even greater.
Occasionally they will recommend something to each other, but whether they can accept each other's recommendation is another matter.
In this regard, Gu Qinghuan, Jiang Chuchu and Yu Xin can be said to be role models for the three teams. When doing things, the three of them complement each other and know each other's intentions without much explanation.
When they have other plans or encounter something they don't like, they can refuse calmly and will not misunderstand that the other party hates them.
Ouyang Wushuang sometimes feels that the various concepts of everyone in Class 3 are so healthy that they are a bit bizarre.
Not only their views on making friends, but also Xu Xinghe and Ai Ning's views on love are very healthy.
Sure enough, it’s the class monitor’s credit, right?
Jia Yimo held his head with both hands, his ideas were greatly shocked. After a long time, he put down his hands and said, "What if I go back on my words like this? What if I get disliked?"
"What's the use of your mouth?" After Ouyang Wushuang finished complaining, he remembered that the person in front of him was a junior, and his tone softened a little.
"This doesn't count as going back on one's word. It only counts as changing one's mind temporarily after a plan is made. We should have made it clear while we were still in the discussion stage. If we force things, neither side will be happy."
Jia Yimo sat in his original position, thinking silently, while Ouyang Wushuang moved closer to Gu Qinghuan and whispered to her.
"Although this child has some personality issues, at least he can listen to what others say." Ouyang Wushuang said, "He seems to have a rebuttal personality that can still be saved."
Ouyang Wushuang's words made Gu Qinghuan want to laugh, but she held back and asked, "Do you still think she has bad intentions towards Tianjiao?"
Ouyang Wushuang shook her head. Judging from what Jia Yimo said before, it was obvious that she was going to introduce Murong Tianjiao, who had the same name and style, to her.
Moreover, if she hated Murong Tianjiao, she would never mention Murong Tianjiao to others.
In other words, Jia Yimo was still paying attention to Murong Tianjiao privately and had a good impression of him.
"Let me ask." Ouyang Wushuang made a decision quickly. Keeping things secret is not her style.
She turned her head to look at Jia Yimo and shouted, "Jia Yimo, do you know Murong Tianjiao?"
Jia Yimo was still reviewing her past experiences. The more she thought about it, the more she felt that her friends had really indulged her many times in the past, but she had never noticed it at all.
She was feeling depressed, and when she heard Ouyang Wushuang's words, she subconsciously responded, "I know him...ah!"
Jia Yimo suddenly raised his head and looked at Ouyang Wushuang, his eyes wide open: "Senior Ouyang is also in the cosplay circle?"
"No!" Ouyang Wushuang denied it flatly, and then asked directly, "Do you like that cosplayer?"
Jia Yimo nodded, and then said embarrassedly: "Although I like her very much, I misunderstood her before and said a lot of unpleasant things under her account..."
Her voice trailed off. “So now I can only watch her works secretly, and I don’t even dare to like or comment on them.”
Gu Qinghuan asked: "Did she block you?"
Jia Yimo shook her head subconsciously. Her account had never been changed, and she could still see Murong Tianjiao's works. Of course, she had not been blocked...
She paused to shake her head, already understanding what Gu Qinghuan meant.
"That means she doesn't hate you so much that she doesn't want to see you." Gu Qinghuan laughed, "Maybe she has a generous personality and doesn't intend to argue with you, or maybe she doesn't care about you at all."
"But what do you think? Do you want to tell her that you like her? Do you want to apologize for your past mistakes?"
Jia Yimo behaves so disappointingly, habitually refuting others, yet at the same time longs to be welcomed - what she really wants is a sense of self-identity.
It's just that she took the wrong approach, overemphasizing herself and trying to make others listen to her, which had the opposite effect.
In that case, let her learn to accept herself first.
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